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TheSimpleLife84

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Looking for companionship

TheSimpleLife84
My Sect
Sunni
Religiousness
Somewhat religious
My Profession
Legal
Marital Status
Divorced
County/State
Leicestershire
Country
United Kingdom
Registration Reason
I'm registering to find myself a partner

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A Little Bit About Me
I am a kind hearted, warm, hardworking, very honest and sincere person, someone who is an open book. I walk with a spring in my step and a smile on my face. Little things in life make me happy, yes I am easily pleased and amused lol

I don’t like conflict or drama and will try to discuss and understand things to reach resolution. I don’t play games with people’s hearts and feelings, and similarly don’t like people who do. Life is too short and precious to be wasting on emotional point scoring.

I wouldn’t say that I am materialistic but do enjoy small treasures and pleasures of life now and then – everyone deserves a treat :)

I generally tend to get on with most people I meet but wouldn’t say I can ‘work a crowd’. I feel more at ease in one to one interaction and generally keep my circle tight. I have a small family who I am close with and see very regularly, but at the same time I am also very independent in what I do and how I live my life.

Most of my days are spent juggling work, prayer, housekeeping, cooking, school runs, a bit of exercise etc. Yes I try to be a hero and can burnout every so often! I'm also that person you might find bopping to a tune now and then while cooking or driving.

In the spare time I find, I enjoy reading and watching movies. I am someone who is at peace in their own space and can quite easily spend an evening in silence accompanied by a coffee and a warm blanket to unwind, reset and reflect.

Alhamdulillah, Allah SWT has blessed me with everything I need in life, good health, stability and peace of mind and everything material. On reflection I don’t feel that I need a husband but I seek a friend and companion, someone to have a meaningful relationship with and to grow with over time.

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What I Am Looking For
If you have got to this point not having been put off by anything above that is a good sign!

People who wouldn’t be a match with me:-
1. If you don’t celebrate Milaad or do khatam. This is a total deal breaker. I do celebrate and would only accept a partner who does also.
2. Liars, people who are manipulative or hypocritical (yes, you know who you are).
3. Smokers or people who use foul language.
4. People looking for a maid in a wife.
5. People who aren’t from an Indian/ African heritage please don’t message me. I am looking for someone from a similar background to myself.
6. UK/ British born people only please.

Having been through the above, if you are still here, that is looking positive :)

So, the nitty gritty, what am I looking for.

I would like a partner who is kind, loyal and not judgmental. I don’t like people who are arrogant or think of everyone else as beneath them. Someone who values a strong foundation to build a relationship from and is always open, honest and true to their word. Someone who practices deen, even if they haven’t reached perfection (I haven’t either) and is in their heart and soul God fearing.

A person who is genuinely respectful to my family – I will definitely be respectful to yours :). I have 1 child who is 9, while they don’t need a replacement father figure, I would expect my partner to accept my child wholeheartedly. If you’re someone who expects me to choose between my child and you (these people do exist), you can guess who will be exiting the building!

Someone who can hold a conversation who I can talk to easily, about anything and everything or just nothing but empty banter (I am that person who will ask you what you are doing or how your day has been over text). Whether that is conversation around why tea is better in the morning than coffee (yes it is!) or the more serious stuff. If you have a sense of humor and don’t take things too seriously we would get on just fine.

Like me, I would like to meet someone who is settled in life. Someone who lives independently and can take care of themselves without expecting the Mrs. to do every little thing for them. If you can cook (a toastie counts as cooking) or are a handy person you get extra points!

While we might not end up in a perfect marriage, if were in a place where you look forward to coming home and seeing your spouse after work I think we're half way there.

Lastly, I do have limited in scope but frequent contact with my ex-husband, because of contact arrangements with our child. If this makes you feel uncomfortable or awkward, please do not contact me.

Wishing everyone all the success in their search :)

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Personal Information
My Citizenship
British
Country of Origin
United Kingdom
Willing to Relocate?
Locally
I am Looking to Marry
Unsure
My Income
Prefer not to say
Marital Status
Divorced
Would I like to have Children?
Unsure
Do I have children?
I have one child
My Living Arrangements?
I Live Alone
Country
United Kingdom
County/State
Leicestershire
Distance
unknown
Appearance
My Height
1.56m
My Build
Slim
My Hair Colour
Dark brown
Colour of My Eyes
Brown
Do I Smoke?
No
Do I Have Any Disabilities?
No
Education
My Education Level
Bachelors degree
Subject I Studied
Law
Language
My First Language
English
My Second Language
Kutchi
Work
My Profession
Legal
My Job Title
Legal Professional
Religion
Religiousness
Somewhat religious
My Sect
Sunni
Hijab/Niqab
Yes Hijab
Beard
Prefer not to say
Are You a Revert?
No
Do You Keep Halal?
I Always Keep Halal
Do You Perform Salaah?
Usually